i'd hate to start a post with a rant. but seriously, i need to rant!
last night, my long time online friend, A, told me about some facebook drama that occurred between him and two of our friends, who happened to be my secondary school classmates. (coincidence i know! wonder how come he has such fate with PL girls. lol.)
anyway, A mentioned going Switzerland with his three PL girls (S, R & me). then S commented that all three of us have boyfriends. A was surprised as he didn't know that R had a boyfriend, because R has never mentioned anything about being attached on facebook or to him.
then S said R was very low key, unlike minmin (me) like to advertise her love on facebook. A asked her if she was against people advertising their love on facebook. then R came in and requested for A to take down all his comments. S followed and said do as R requested. so A took it down. then he pm-ed S to ask what was going on. S said R didn't want to let others know about her private life. so A said that he thought S should haven known better course she was the one who mentioned about it first. then S apologised. the next thing A knew, he was deleted off her facebook account. A then told me S had also deleted me off her facebook. (but not sure if it was due to this 'fight'.)
eh what the hell? what was that for?
clearly, they both has issues. S especially.
1) A was just teasing and joking as usual. no harm intended. why the backlash? apparently R's private life was a taboo on facebook. so understandable that she wanted the comments removed. A did as told, just wanted to know what was going on, did he deserve to be deleted? friends for so many years and he got deleted so easily just cause of something he didn't know? if you ask me, i think that's totally uncalled for! really feel so unfair for A.
2) what was S issue against me? i wasn't even in the conversation. why the snub? she could have simply said that R was very low key and didn't want her private life advertised on facebook. why drag me in? why did she have to mention, in such an insulting and horrible way, that i like to advertise my love?!?
i do not 'ADVERTISE' my love on facebook. yeah, i gush on and on about my boyfriend, how awesome he is, and i am not abashed or afraid of posting pictures of us and declaring my love for him or addressing him by intimate terms like 'baby' and 'dear' online.
it is such an insult and it infuriates me that S used the word 'advertise' on me. how dare she? i am proud of my boyfriend. and i am proud of my love for him. what's wrong about posting mushy stuff on MY OWN FACEBOOK WALL? many of my close friends knows about my boyfriend. i most certainly do not need to 'advertise' my love for him!
okay, so S, i'm sorry that you had to read such mushy stuff on your newsfeed? i'm sorry that it bothers you? but other than that, i've never done anything to you. did you have to be so mean and insult my love like it was some kinda trash? sheesh!
we all have our own ways on dealing with our relationships. so you and R like it private and confidential, all to yourselves. that doesn't mean i have to follow suit! if i didn't know better, i'd think you're some jealous, jaded lonely girl who can't stand any form of PDA cause you don't have anyone to show your affections for.
which clearly isn't the case. so what is your problem? (unless you, in fact, have problems with your love life?)
and deleting me off your facebook, i have no freaking idea what went wrong? did i ever offend you in any way? or is it that you just can't stand me 'advertising' my love online? heh, c'mon. i don't give a shit if you 'unfriend' me. we're not even close, so it doesn't bother me. but seriously? the snub was totally uncalled for, especially since we are not close, who are you to judge? o.O
phew..feel so much better getting this off my chest.
so anyway, i went shopping at rivervale mall's daiso today! spent two hours inside without realising it! lol! it has to be the longest time i spent in daiso (and any other shops for the matter)! and also, it's the first time i bought so many things there too! 18 items! which amounted to $36!
although nine of the items were my sister's. (for someone who claims she doesn't like daiso, she sure 'bought' a lot!) still, i was the one who paid for them! see! i treat my sis so good right! hahaha! treated her KFC after shopping some more!
wanted to get a pair of gloves for baby for ice skating, but the men's gloves were placed beyond my reach! (short, i know!) i seriously wonder how people are expected to get the items that are displayed high up on the shelves. seriously!
rivervale mall's daiso wasn't as big compared to plaza singapura and vivocity's outlet. but it was still big enough, and loaded with many pretty and useful things, for me to shop for two whole hours! lol!
its like, my second time going to rivervale mall ever since primary school, not counting the time baby once brought me there for dinner. baby said rivervale mall is a nice place to walk walk. i replied, so small! i'm bored already! and i've only been in here for five minutes! baby was like, 'how can you say that about my favourite mall! got daiso you know!' and i replied, 'haha, ya i know! i'm in daiso heaven naooooooo!!!' and that was when baby panicked and went, 'don't make too much impulse purchases ar!'
lol! i swear my baby knows me well. then again, everyone probably knows i shop non-stop luh! >.<"
anyway, proud to say i didn't (really) make any impulse buy! i have justified reasons for each and every items i purchased! not counting those my sis got luh, which mostly are definitely impulse buys (using my money! -.-)
#1 items i bought at daiso today!
food, sweets, black board, purple marker, sponges, warmer and pink and white sakura plate are hers. festival winter potpourri is shared between us (but she insist is hers). the yellow cup is for mummy. and the rest are mine!
and here's a totally random (and blurry and ugly) picture of me wearing the air force singlet baby insisted on giving me! he likes the idea of me wearing his clothes i think? lol.
#2 me feeling really comfy in this shirt!
No comments:
Post a Comment